Thank You for taking the time to
stop by !
I want to take a few minutes and
prepare you
for what you will find as you continue
into
one of my newest web sites that
I am creating.
You will find many terms and
labels used in my site.
Most of the information is still
under the old stereo type
that places all those who are different
into a neat little box.
Please spend a little time and
read some of the articles
that will explain about people
like myself.
I was tested and diagnosed
as being
*inter sexed*
Most articles are written about
the Transsexual or T.S.
Inter sex and Hermaphrodites
are also placed into this box.
Either way we are hard wired like
this before birth.
Gender makes you male or female.
Secondary sexual characteristics
DO NOT !
Gender is pre wired into the brain
in the womb.
Gender is not sexual in any way.
Ok to answer the other big question.
I wonder if they are going to have
a sex change?
No I do not NEED a sex change.
However I will be having some corrective
surgery
The photos were taken
7 months prior to my starting date
there at work.
It was at this time that I found
myself in desperate need
of new employment.
As I searched for work I started
to listen more and more to
what others thought and said about
people like myself.
So I became very depressed and
stopped taking the
medicines that regulate and balance
out my hormones.
7 months later not knowing who I
truly was any more
I took the job that I currently
have now.
However I found out a few months
into my job that I
could not live this way and so
I faced the big choice
once again. Please others and hate
my life and perhaps
once and for all just give up into
that forever sleep.
Well you know what ? I am
not going to let life's
circumstances beat me and steal
any more of my life.
So I am asking you to please read
my story and a few
of the text articles written by
the medical field
about people like myself.
I did not choose to be this way,
however
I am NOT ashamed of who I am .
So please grasp this one thing,
I was born with a birth defect
and
I am just Jami an inter sexed
girl !
You think this is hard for you?
Try living it 24/7 I do !
Oh and I have about the same strength
as any other girl
and in many cases less ! Thank
God !
Thank You for taking the time and
interest.
Have a Great life , I am trying
to.
Love Jami Maree
~*~*~*~ P.S ~*~*~*~
If you are wondering about my voice,
It changes often from time to time.
I remember one time I was watching
a movie
with my mom and Raegan and I spoke
in "my voice"
and my moms mouth dropped
to the floor
and Raegan turned to me with a
huge smile and said
did you hear your self ? Because
my mom has yet
to except this about me as my sister
has.
Up date as of 3/3/07
I have found once you educate a
person and let them learn
the truth about something they
tend to have an understanding heart.
I write this from the huge amount
of respect and fairness
that I have received over the months.
I am not a freak nor do I have cudies!
I am just a person who was born
with a birth defect
and has struggled all her life
to try and feel real
like every one else.
I thank every one who has excepted
this about me and treats
me with the respect of just being
a person who is different
and loves life with all of her
heart.
I thank God for "YOU" every single
day!